Hey Vixens! šŸ‘‹

If we haven’t met yet—hi! I’m Tim (any pronouns), and I’m thrilled to be stepping in as the new blog writer here at Brass Vixens. I’ve been part of this vibrant, strong, body-loving community since 2019, and it’s no exaggeration to say that pole has transformed not just my body, but my sense of self.Ā  I’ve cried on the pole. I’ve laughed through awkward climbs. And I’ve celebrated every little victory, from my first spin to my first bruised-but-proud shoulder mount.

I started pole as a curious newbie looking for a way to move that didn’t involve treadmills or counting reps. What I found was a space where strength met sensuality, where community came before competition, and where I could show up fully as I am.

Whether you’re an absolute beginner or a seasoned inverter, I see you. And I’m so excited to write for you.

What’s Coming to the Blog

This relaunch isn’t just a fresh coat of varnish; it’s a commitment to creating a space that reflects everything Brass Vixens stands for: empowerment, inclusivity, wellness, and joy.

You can expect blog posts that:

  • Break down pole moves (with tips, progressions, and instructor insight)
  • Offer real talk on injury prevention, mobility, and recovery
  • Highlight student stories and community voices
  • Explore topics like body neutrality, queer identity, and movement as healing
  • Help you slay at home with no-pole practice ideas
  • Introduce gear guides, class previews, and event recaps

Basically, if it makes you feel stronger, sexier, or more connected—we’re writing about it. And because we’re not just about movement but also mindfulness, you’ll find posts on self-care, resilience, confidence, and what it means to be part of a community that cheers each other on (even in a headstand).

 

Here’s a little taste:

šŸ³ļøā€šŸŒˆ Beyond the Rainbow: Practicing Year-Round Allyship in Pole Studios

For me, Pride Month is every month. And while Pride has long passed, allyship shouldn’t be a seasonal phenomenon. Pole studios have long been safe spaces for self-expression, queerness, and radical self-love—but being inclusive takes ongoing effort, not just rainbow filters and one-off posts.

For studios, inclusivity starts with action:

  • Use gender-neutral language in classes and registration forms.
  • Represent diversity in marketing—across race, body type, gender, age, and ability.
  • Offer scholarships or sliding scale classes for marginalized communities.
  • Regularly train staff on anti-oppression, trauma-informed teaching, and affirming practices for trans and nonbinary students.
  • Allyship means creating a space where people don’t just feel welcomed—they feel belonging.

For students, support goes beyond showing up to the Pride class or sharing a post. Real allyship looks like:

  • Respecting pronouns (and correcting others when needed).
  • Uplifting and learning from queer and BIPOC performers and instructors.
  • Calling out exclusion or microaggressions when you see them.
  • Choosing to learn—not for clout, but for community care.

 

Pole is powerful because it’s political. It’s personal. It’s healing. Let’s keep making our studios not just places to move, but places to feel seen, celebrated, and safe. Allyship isn’t a trend. It’s a daily practice. And together, we’re keeping that energy alive. This blog is for you, Vixens. So if you ever have a question, a story, or a topic you want to see covered, slide into our inbox. Let’s build this together.

May your hands always be dry and your toes always pointed.

 

With strength, sweat, and booty slaps,

Tim 🫦

Brass Vixens Blog Writer

Still bruised. Still thriving.